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902 Angesehen
05/12/10
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I am not here to win a popularity contest. I am here to, if I am exceptionally lucky, make a Connection. In another blog, I declared real Connections are exceptionally rare. I'm speaking of that Connection that makes you want to move mountains to get to that person, thrills you to see they are online... takes your breath away! If there is no photo, no additional information... I, personally, am left to do nothing in response... and you might have been my special Connection.
If there is initial attraction after viewing a photo, after perusing the abundance of profiles, I immediately proceed to read your information to see if there is additional attraction in the words you write. I want to ascertain if I am not only attracted to the physical attributes of a Cub, but to their personality, their interests and their mental attitude.
Most of the time, I discover there is no additional information... no clue to lead me to wish to pursue you further. Even more disconcerting is the fact that so many profiles have no photo, AND no additional details to pique a Cougar's interest. How can one choose to initiate interest, if we are left with nothing to work with... to wrap our minds around?
So, Cubs of CougarMingle, if you want your dream Cougar to respond... please attach a photo. Then, give a few details about yourself that will pique her interest. Remember... the Cougar is intelligent, confident, knowledgeable about what they wants and, on the whole, perceptive. Your photo and your personal details might aid in finding the Cougar you desire. And if we are fortunate... we just might find that rare, special Connection that ignites a mutual fire. At which point, we will add fuel to that fire with every breath we take.
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Preference for Younger Men
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1486 Angesehen
01/28/10
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There are so many reasons I, as an older woman, am attracted to, prefer and enjoy the attributes of the younger man and all he has to offer. Among the many reasons are enthusiasm, adventurous, spontaneous, curious, non-judgmental and, of course... pure, raw stamina.
The younger man respects my independence, my enthusiasm, my "worldly" knowledge and is not intimidated by my confidence. Also, he is capable of keeping up with me in spirit, activity, my need for adventure and spontaneity... and anything else that comes to mind. In addition, rarely are they boring!
I have been attracted to the younger man since I was 16. Because of my avidly strong attraction and distinct preference for the younger, I stay young, as well... keeping my body fit, my mind open and my soul free.
It would be nice to know the reasons a younger man chooses to seek and has a preference for the older woman. Care to comment?
Missterious One
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What Makes a Connection?
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253 Angesehen
04/20/10
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While we all meet new people almost every day, while we peruse profiles often... for the most part, our search continues. Why?
Personally, I feel it is because we do not or cannot "connect."
We want to make a connection, otherwise we wouldn't be here, nor would we be searching. It has nothing to do with "love." It is physical. Why is it so difficult? What makes that special "connection" between two people... the kind that makes you want to move mountains, cross oceans to touch them... the kind where it is difficult to focus on anything else but, the logistics of getting to them? Oddly enough, that kind of connection happens rarely, briefly or not at all.
There are thousands of interesting/attractive/personable/hot members on this site. Whether we respond to inquiries with a Flirt, a Wink, exchange a few mails, engage in chats, talk on the phone or, perhaps, even meet... it is not that easy to connect on a casual or, especially, a deeper level.
After perusing hundreds of profiles or upon making contact of some kind, not connecting prevents the majority of us from pursuing additional contact. Perhaps, after "meeting", we walk away from someone because the initial attraction proves to be too tame, interest dissipates, the distance between you is abysmal or there is lack of communication.
Regardless, our search continues... for we are eternally hopeful creatures, always maintaining the thought our Connection is out there somewhere!
Where are you??
Missterious One
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On Being a Cougar
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795 Angesehen
04/30/10
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In my opinion, being a Cougar is neither learned, nor won due to age and experience. Being a Cougar is a lifestyle. It's an attitude. It's the way you choose to be... the only way you can be.
It's knowing what you want and enjoy in life... especially younger men and everything they are, or could be with you beside them. It's going after what you want... making the first move if need be and having no need to apologize for doing so. It's possessing inner serenity, confidence and complete self-assurance when you walk into a room. It's being non-judgmental. It's not wanting to be fenced in and not wanting to fence him in. It's finding younger men exciting, stimulating in every possible way... and finding your peers and/or older men boring in all ways.
It's the younger man choosing to be with you because you are intelligent, sexy, secure in your own skin, open-minded... non-threatening. You welcome anything into your life that fulfills your needs as a woman... accepting and receiving pleasure as you wish, as you choose. And, it's having the power and carnal knowledge to do so. It's the attitude that you are worth any and every effort and deserve all you desire, anything you want.
The younger man, the Cub who prefers a Cougar... wants a woman with all these attributes. He knows all those things about you instantly and he gravitates towards all that you are... because you are who you are, because you know all there is to know about most things he cares about. You know how to entice him, enthrall him, enjoy him... please him. You know you are a Cougar... and, are totally and completely proud of it.
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Choices
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336 Angesehen
02/04/10
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There are many reasons why we choose to make inquiries of or respond to any one particular person. There are a number of reasons we choose to be unresponsive to an inquiry or a wink. In my case, time is limited. Other times, an inquiry or profile strikes a wrong chord. Often, there is no photo which is worrisome. An accompanying photo heightens interest when you find a profile that piques your curiosity or is to your liking.
We are all on this site searching for something in one way or another. If one does not receive a response to their inquiry, they should not take it as a personal affront. For many reasons, as stated above, it happens to all of us.
We are all creatures of beauty. While some people might find beauty in diamonds, others prefer rubies, or pearls, etc. When I choose to not respond to an inquiry, a mail or a wink, it is because I prefer a pearl to a diamond or a ruby and there is no sense in wasting our time. It has nothing to do with you personally. It is my choice.
In our intrepid search, we do or will discover our "pearl." I sincerely hope you are fortunate in finding yours.
MissteriousOne
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